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Great, now I have to delete the word “just” from every one of my stories.

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Haha

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Brilliant. Now I have another publication I must subscribe to. Well done.

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Cheers!

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I can relate to much of this. And don’t get me started on Proustian rushes!

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100% agree, Remy. Adam Nathan should have a bigger following. Love that you had him here. Fantastic questions, fabulous answers. Adam, Annie Dillard makes my top writers list as well.

Thanks to you both for this fun post!

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Thanks Holly!

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Thanks, Holly. When I read The Living it almost blew my mind the writing was so amazing. Command.

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I mentioned Annie Dillard in a post recently. A friend from vanlife emailed to tell me about how she used to play softball with Annie and friends near Tinker Creek!! It's a small and connected world.

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Indeed. It’s hard to get my mind around her playing softball. For me she’s writing in a wood cabin deep into the Olympic Peninsula. 🖊️

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Heh, very enjoyable.

"Reading my own writing is a gardening exercise in weeding out the words “really” and "just."

😅 Yeeep.

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"Actually" is another weed that springs up everywhere.

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Actually is so enjoyable though....

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Ah, that I could summon such wit in response to questions like that!

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❤️

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Fabuloso. "Just" loved this!

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Thanks Jeanine!

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I just want to say, "❤️."

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Touché.

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Oh!!!! Flagging this one to read when my brain is in one, attentive whole.

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I'll forgive Adam the missionary position in exchange for his Yankees hatred.

Vote Adam Nathan '24!

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I felt like I was actually writing the question with that one. :-)

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I hate questionnaires. I refuse to fill them out unless someone threatens me with jail time.

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That’s Question #32.

😝

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Thank you for including me in your Proust Questionnaire series. I am flattered, and you nudged me after years to sit down and tackle it. And thanks for the kind words and not removing the thirty-seven links to my work that I snuck into my answers. 🙏

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Oh I sneakily replaced all links with mine own work bwhahaha

Thank you for playing the game Adam 🙃

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This was a lot of fun, although seeing the cork board lined coffin quoted outside of this questionnaire was a bit unsettling.

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Really enjoyed Adam Nathan’s rye candor and just want to say thank you Remy!!

Attempted appropriate use of both weed words…cheers!

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You're much welcome :)

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What a joy of a read, thank you both

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Do not watch Hitchcock’s Final Escape. I hid behind a sofa watching it as a ten year old and have never been the same. Also, I blink a lot on film too.

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You're a blinker, too! If I need to quickly access my self-loathing I watch myself on film.

I have not seen Final Escape, although I'm pretty sure I don't want to now.

However... freshman year in high school there was a book, I think it was called Buried Alive about some bad guys that kidnapped a girl and put her in a coffin and buried her and piped in air and left her food in the coffin. There was a small fan to keep the air circulating. I have no idea why the school would ever think having that sick book was a good idea. It literally terrifies me still if I let it. I have terrible claustrophobia to the point that I had to pull myself back a bit when I wrote my response above. I wonder if intense vertigo has the same level of fear. Who could I possibly ask? 😀

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Pure horror! Now put that coffin on the deck of a boat in a great tempest and yours truly understands.

Ps. Richard Gere is also blinky and it does him no favors. I join you in the self-loathing.

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